As we bask in the memories of another successful College World Series in Omaha, here is some intimacy advice in language a baseball enthusiast might understand.
First, don’t leave the “on-deck circle” too soon.
There is nothing wrong with a little extra warm up and it can even benefit the overall game. Take a few extra warm-up swings to check out the field, increase your awareness around you and allow each player to properly warm up.
Remember, slugger, women need extra time and attention before you start swinging away.
One of the biggest mistakes of the game is rushing into things before both players are cognitively and emotionally ready.
As the pace of the game quickens, use the seventh-inning stretch as an opportunity to change things up, like readjusting and trying new positions. A popular complaint from many couples is that the game becomes routine, without enough creativity.
Now, a bit of advice for those self-declared power hitters.
There is a time and place for this, just not in the bedroom regularly. Remember that it’s not about how you want to play the game, but also what the other team wants.
So slow down, slugger. It’s not a race. In fact, more time and a softer approach can be desirable – especially for females.
Also, we are not pitch counting so a double header isn’t always necessary.
Lastly, it’s OK if you strike out.
Nobody has a perfect batting average even if you’re young and in great shape. In fact, it’s not uncommon for men to experience problems up to 20 percent of the time.
There are treatments for these conditions, so we’d rather recommend you visit your doctor if you want more information about available treatments and medications.
In summary:
- Warm up, especially outside the strike zone
- Avoid routine and talk about new, creative plays
- S-L-O-W D-O-W-N!
It’s likely you won’t always have a perfect game, but if problems persist and cause anxiety, talk to your doctor.
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