We realize we live in a society that both prioritizes and promises quick-fix-it opportunities, but a quick-fix sex pill isn’t available. Sorry.
In fact, we’re not really sure what a quick-fix-it pill would do for the majority of sexual problems that people have.
The little blue pill. Viagra. Yes, this pill exists as well as its cousins Cialis and Levitra. These medications (called PDE-5 because they target an enzyme called PDE-5 which is in charge of blood flow) are for men experiencing erectile difficulties due to poor circulation.
This pill can be effective if no other problems exist like diabetes, high blood pressure, pain medications, certain anti-depressants, etc. This pill doesn’t increase desire, add length, allow for better orgasms or puff up your pectoral muscles.
If you are PDE-5 pill happy, beware of counterfeit PDE-5 pills from Canada and India which has no benefits whatsoever in addition to possible safety concerns. Also, the company producing Viagra looses its U.S. patent in March 2012, so generics will become available which will change the market both in good and bad ways.
Hence, we reaffirm there isn’t a quick-fix sex pill available.
The most common sexual problem is low desire. Some companies have attempted desire increasing medications but have failed drug trials. There is nothing currently available which has been FDA approved, so don’t be fooled by internet and late-night television advertisements.
If you are looking for a pill to quickly fix your sexual dilemma, we question why.
Sexual problems don’t just ignite overnight unless there is a medical/surgical/illness reason.
Most likely, your sexual dilemma has been present for a while and sometimes years. Low desire, lubrication problems, erectile difficulty and orgasm concerns can become worse with time if they aren’t dealt with.
Often times, as these sexual problems grow worse, relationship tension increases, frustration and resentment climb and other avoidance-based problems are likely like affairs and addictions.
If you would like to fix your sexual problem, then first commit to attending to it rather than avoiding it. Since the problem most likely developed over time, then have patience to find a solution. Next, talk openly and honestly with your partner about your feelings and how the sexual problem is affecting you.
Also, be honest with yourself as to how you may have contributed to the problem.
- Have you been distant to your partner, which led him/her to feel unappreciated, unloved, unattractive, etc?
- Do you have an anger problem or over-scheduled lifestyle which leaves little time for the relationship?
- Is their an historical trauma, body image concern, or pain that you’re consciously not resolving?
- Are you purposely not taking care of yourself in order to keep your partner away from you?
If both of you agree that (1) there is a problem and (2) your committed to addressing it, then figure out what you need to do.
Non-pill-popping suggestions:
- Ignite romance into the relationship and spend quality time together.
- Remember the early years of your relationship and how you and your partner interacted when there was excitement
- Exercise your mind sexually by reading erotic books or thinking sexy thoughts – especially on the days you think you might make love
- Schedule a date night with a romantic dinner and a sexy-love story movie.
- Visit your doctor about thyroid/hormonal issues if weight and energy are a problem.
- Jump-start a healthy lifestyle with a better diet and exercise to improve your mood, confidence, body image and energy.
- Schedule an appointment with a specialist if desire, arousal, orgasm or pain problems don’t subside on their own.
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